Rediscover pleasure and intimacy through inclusive sex therapy in Denver

Reclaim connection, confidence, and pleasure.

At Kin Counseling Services, we help individuals and relationships address sexual concerns with compassion, expertise, and a nonjudgmental approach. Whether you're exploring shame, wanting more education, seeking deeper intimacy, addressing pain, or working through the effects of past trauma, we’re here to guide and support you with care every step of the way.

We have no waitlist and are accepting new clients now. We work with individuals, couples, and all forms of relationship structures.

  • Deepen your relationship with yourself and others.

  • Heal shame and rediscover self-acceptance.

  • Overcome challenges like low desire, performance anxiety, or pain during sex.

  • Learn to communicate your needs with confidence.

Let’s build the fulfilling, connected life you deserve. Together we can:

Our Expertise:

Sexual health and intimacy are deeply personal, and our approach is tailored to meet your specific needs. Using proven therapeutic methods, we support clients with concerns such as:

  • Pain during intimacy

  • Shame

  • Sexual trauma

  • Desire discrepancies

  • Performance concerns

  • Polyamorous and non-monogamous relationship dynamics

Our Mission:

Our mission is to empower clients to create lives where they feel celebrated, seen and free to embrace their unique identities and desires. Through queer-affirming and inclusive sex therapy, we provide a safe space to explore intimacy, heal shame, and nurture authentic connections. We believe everyone deserves to experience pleasure + self-acceptance.

Testimonials

  • ★★★★★

    “Kaley's therapy approach, centered on relationships and attachments, is so impactful and really helps get to the root of what’s going on. She is so kind and creates a safe space where I feel comfortable opening up. With her support, I am gaining insights into my past so I can shift my present.”

  • ★★★★★

    “For the first time, I felt safe discussing my struggles with intimacy. My therapist’s acceptance allowed me to heal shame, embrace my body, and rediscover connection and pleasure."

  • ★★★★★

    “Therapy helped me shift from feeling broken to understanding my body with compassion. I’ve learned to navigate pain without shame.”

  • ★★★★★

    "I never thought therapy could make such a difference in my relationship. We went from feeling disconnected and frustrated to being open, playful, and intimate again. It’s been such a gift for both of us."

We’re ready when you are.

Addressing intimacy challenges can feel overwhelming and taking the first step is an act of courage. We make it easy to get started:

  • The process: Send us a message and we will connect you with our sex therapist to start the process.

  • Free consultation call: This no-cost, no-pressure call allows you to share your concerns, ask questions, and ensure our approach aligns with your needs.

  • In-network with Medicaid: We are in-network with Colorado Access + CCHA Medicaid. Medicaid members pay $0 for sessions.

  • No waitlist + flexible availability: We have intake appointments available within a week.

Let’s get started.

Send us a message and our intake coordinator will get back to you within 48 hours to schedule a free consultation call or intake session.

Meet Our Sex Therapist:

  • Kaley Selner MS, LPCC (she/her)

    SPECIALIZES IN ATTACHMENT WOUNDS + RELATIONSHIPS

    TRAINED IN AEDP + SEX THERAPY

    “I am dedicated to guiding you through the process of unraveling difficult emotions, addressing traumas, navigating societal pressures, and shedding shame.”

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WE WANT YOU TO KNOW:

Healing is possible.

Let’s work together to heal the wounds that are keeping you stuck.